| What Makes a Therapist "Solution-Focused?" Solution-focused therapists understand that many clients come to their offices expecting (and sometimes dreading) to have to tell the whole story of their problem, with a detailed history of why they are the way they are, and how theyve gotten themselves into such a predicament. A solution-focused therapist also anticipates clients leaving the office after the first session, often saying things like, "Im so relieved I didnt have to tell you my lifes story," and, "I didnt think Id be doing something about this so soon." This is because solution-focused therapy (SFT) is philosophically different than the psychodynamic therapies that have evolved from Freuds emphasis on repression and the unconscious. SFT emphasizes change from the start. There is little emphasis placed on the "hows and whys" of the problem, none at all placed on labeling the "pathology," and more attention given to "what will be different when therapy is over." Although SFT is unique in many regards, its important to identify
several truths that cut across all therapeutic models: |
| Research shows most clients benefit from therapy of any kind.
Unless clients feel connected with their therapist, therapy will have little value. No matter what model the therapist uses, no matter how brilliant he or she is, the most important variable in therapy is what the client brings. If shes motivated, change occurs readily; if not, its a struggle. |
If your therapist does the following, he/she is Solution-Focused:
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— Jeffrey Goldman |